Like all of you, my divorce was just the beginning.
The beginning of a new and different life! With all of the challenges, celebrations, freedoms and uncertainty that I know you are facing.
One part of the divorce transition was moving from being married to single. Having been married quite young, I had not been single very long before marrying my husband so at almost 40, I began my journey as a single mother and woman, taking on all that dating, flirting and the hope of a new relationship brings with it.
I have been divorced 6 years and it has been an extraordinary journey…ups, downs and all arounds…but I can safely say that I am happier than I have ever been!
I want to share with you that I have welcomed a new relationship into my life…a relationship that I never imagined I could have.
I have been hesitant to share this with you because I know exactly where you are…wherever that is, and being in a relationship does not change that.
As a matter of fact, in many ways the challenges increase…however, the joys increase far more.
I say in almost every weekly newsletter that “it is possible”, and it is.
That you can have what you want, because you can.
That the relationship of your dreams is waiting for you, and it is.
That all you need is within you, because I know it to be true!
I dated for over four years before meeting my new partner, and although we are enjoying all that comes with a fantastic relationship, there is so much that I have been learning and experiencing along this journey.
First of all, I know that I created this relationship by “walking my own talk” and designing the relationship of my dreams. That is why I am so confident in all that I share with you and my clients because I know that it, indeed, is true.
It begins with YOU.
I worked hard on myself and my inner journey to be exactly what I wanted to attract in a relationship. And I stayed focused.
I live my life according to the strategies, resources and tools that I teach, coach and speak about and that is WHY my purpose is to support you along YOUR journey.
Those four years of dating, finding my MOJO, flirting and getting clear about what I really wanted in a relationship were critical!! Without them, I would not have been able to welcome a new relationship into my life.
As well, dating as a single parent is not the same as when you are 20 years old with not a care in the world!
We are two adults, with two professions, four children between us, families, and a million obligations in our own personal lives.
If you think that this is easy to navigate….you are WRONG!
What I have learned over this past year and a half is extraordinary!
I have learned so much about myself as a mother…
A sensual woman…
A financially independent person…
Within my marriage, I was not the WHOLE person that I wanted to be and during those years immediately after my divorce, I made a commitment to myself that I would honor exactly who I wanted to be in ALL these areas of my life before welcoming a new relationship in. And it took a while to do just that.
So, I share this news with you for a couple of reasons:
- My relationship with you, the women that I serve, will always be open, honest and real.
- It IS possible!
- There are no accidents, YOU can create all that you want in your life if you make the commitment to honor what you truly want.
Creating a new relationship in your life after divorce is a joyful and important part of the journey…it will include dating, exploring your sensuality and sexuality, discovering the art of flirting, and a lot of self discovery!
If you are “stuck” in this area of your journey…get support! It is absolutely worth it!